AEDP Author as True Other: A Successful Application of AEDP Ethos in a Self-Help Book: A Review of Ron Frederick’s Loving Like You Mean It Loving Like You Mean It: Use the Power of Emotional Mindfulness to Rewire Your Brain and Transform Your Relationships. By Ronald J. Frederick (2019). Las Vegas, Nevada: Central Recovery Press. 241 pp. By Carrie Ruggieri, LMHC, BCETS, Transformance Associate Editor Loving Like You Mean It is a sequel to Ron Frederick’s 2009 best-selling book, Living Like You Mean It. On the surface it is a self-help book. But in fact, it is whatever a…