Diversity, Belonging, Equity and Inclusion

DBEI Committee: Community Engagement and Support

The DBEI Committee provides continuous community support through real-time course feedback, specialized training programs, and annual listening sessions. We prioritize ongoing discussions of essential topics to foster learning and development.

Each year (in March) begins with our listening session, where community members share insights that shape our annual initiatives. Our diverse committee – comprising a DEI consultant, four community members, two faculty, and one Institute staff member – works to create programs that leverage our community’s collective expertise and perspectives. Current members include Joshua DeSilva, Lynne Hartwell, Jacqueline Lynch, Karen Pando-Mars, Connie Rhodes, James Santos, and Jacquie Ye-Perman. We extend our gratitude to founding members Kate Halliday, Yuko Hanakawa, Jerry Lamagna, and Ben Medley for their foundational work in establishing this committee.

Our Mission

  • To uplift and invite values of diversity, belonging, equity and inclusion and to strive through every element of AEDP to promote diversity in all of its many forms including race/ethnicity, sexuality, gender, age, size, ability, socioeconomic status, relationship status, nationality, culture and religion. 
  • To foster ways for the AEDP institute to continue to evolve in these areas, including having more diversity in leadership (faculty, supervisors and course assistants).
  • Increasing inclusion and belonging in the world wide AEDP community by removing barriers to full participation with historically underrepresented identities and/or groups.
  • To continue to develop theory and practices to address the impact of racialized trauma, trauma of oppression, and other forms of being othered in our society. 
  • To recognize the emergent DBE&I needs within the AEDP community by attending to present cultural moments. 
  • To help equip therapists to provide an open and engaged intervention to all clients, especially those from marginalized communities across the world.
  • To be a learning community and theoretical home for all people in a way that is consistent with our core values of undoing aloneness and creating and maintaining safety and connection, and seeking to create conditions that are conducive to flourishing.

AEDP Vision Collective – AEDP & Healing Racialized Trauma

“Our vision is to create an ongoing, diverse cohort of people who are passionate about working together to develop initiatives and innovative approaches to addressing topics related to “AEDP & Healing Racialized Trauma.” Being attuned to the long-standing, historic and current oppression of global Black communities, and also to this historical moment in the USA, we have been deliberate in focusing on self-identified Black AEDP community members, asking them to take the lead to re-imagine ways that AEDP can address racialized trauma. In the future, we hope to broaden and build this initiative to include other marginalized communities and intersectional identities who experience oppression and systemic injustice.” Meet our members and explore the Collective here.

On July 1, 2020, AEDP™ Institute launched a pilot program offering all Institute-sponsored online trainings on a Pay-What-You-Wish basis to self-identified Black mental health professionals. The program has been extended through December 2025.

‘Pay-What-You-Wish’ participants can choose to attend courses for free or set an amount that they feel comfortable paying.

If you self-identify as a Black clinician and you wish to take advantage of this program, you can choose one of the following:

  • If you have found a training that you want to join, please email Carolyn at carolyn.f@aedpinstitute.org with the following information:
    Please provide the title of the course for which you are seeking a scholarship.
    1. Your name, your email address and your license type and number.
    2. The amount (if any) that you wish to pay to ensure you receive the accurate registration link and pricing code for successful registration.
  • If a course is currently listed as sold out, we may be able to make room for you – please ask.
  • Haven’t found a specific training that works for you? Be sure to join our mailing list. We regularly announce new training sessions.

AEDP Institute invites program participants to voluntarily share their experiences and feedback by contacting admin@aedpinstitute.org or emailing the DBEI Committee at dbei.committee@aedpinstitute.org

In 2017-18 the Institute started a Diversity Scholarship Program for Immersion, Essential Skills courses and Institute sponsored seminars. Thus far, this program has awarded many scholarships and has helped our courses become more diverse and inclusive. The Diversity Scholarship Committee (formerly known as the Diversity Committee) works in tandem with the Committee for Diversity, Belonging, Equity & Inclusion and is composed of community and faculty members.

To apply for a scholarship for a particular course, please visit the course page and look for Diversity Scholarships just below the registration button.

We recognize the importance of ongoing work with anti-racism training, practices and processes. Members of AEDP Institute faculty and admin participated in “Groundwater” antiracism training with the Racial Equity Institute (REI).

AEDP Institute also partnered with Dr. Della V. Mosley, PhD, Assistant Professor at the University of Florida & Co-Founder of Academics for Black Survival and Wellness, to make available a meaningful, 14 week online training for non-Black therapists in anti-Black racism. This In-Depth training with live, AEDP Colleague Accountability Groups was originally developed by Dr. Mosley and a group of clinical psychologists working in academia to help people better understand anti-Black racism and help support Black professionals in the fields of psychology and academics.

Community members were invited to participate and the Institute sponsored the cost of the training for faculty, supervisors, experiential assistants and admin team members, with roughly 150 community members participating.

We plan to continue training in antiracism and engage with various organizations, leaders and teachers in the years ahead.

On Microaggressions towards racially marginalized groups: Many white people are fearful of “saying the wrong thing”. As human beings we sometimes say the wrong thing … It’s what we do after that makes all the diference. If we retreat in the midst of shame and guilt, that exacerbates the harm.

Self-awareness and self-regulation is key for us to bear the discomfort that arises when opening to face implicit biases when they arise and cause harm. The way to heal and repair the consequences of these actions and behaviors is for us to be willing to bear discomfort and bring focus to what needs to be attended to.

Acts of microaggression are wounding to people from various oppressed and vulnerable groups. For example, race, class/economic vulnerability, religion, sexual orientation, sex, non- binary gender identity, disability— visible and invisible, size, age, and other aspects of idenity all may have an impact on a person’s sense of safety or belonging, although we accept that this a non-exhaustive list. In this way, speaking from unexamined racial bias, mis-gendering a non-binary person; or making assumptions about someone’s economic or educational background; being “U.S.-centric” or “European-centric”, are examples of what may be experienced as microaggression. This may require that we re-examine our assumptions about our own relative “power”, or recognizing “privilege”.

There can be a confusion between intentions and consequences. The person in the “privileged position” often wants to exonerate themselves by explaining “I didn’t mean to” rather than staying with the consequence of the action, exploring and attending to the injury.

To commit to the repair is the point – to recognize and recalibrate and move to repair. This is what deepens the relationship.


For each of the steps to repair, here are suggestions for how to address microaggressions. Each
step suggests actions for the offender, and also for an ally of the person who has been offended.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

Attend to the Injury
My way of letting you know that I know that what I said was harmful or hurtful. (This serves the
relationship.)

Attending to the Injury as an ally
My way of letting you know that I know that what was said or done was harmful or hurtful. (This serves the relationship, and also acts as a teaching opportunity to the mircoaggressor.)

LINK TO PAST EXPERIENCE OF THE PERSON

Attend to the Injury

This lets them know that you are aware that you are not the only person to have done this micro aggression, and even though it seems small to you, aggressions have a cumulative effect that you are acknowledging. e.g. “I wonder when I said ….” this will not have been your only experience of this,
and that I am adding to the trauma you already carry.

Attending to the Injury as an ally
My way of letting you know that I am aware that even though it seems small to you, aggressions have a cumulative effect that I am acknowledging. e.g. I am aware that when …. was said this will not have been your only experience of this, and that this added to the trauma you already carry.

AFFIRMATION

Attend to the Injury
My way of saying to you that what you say or experience is the way it is. This is the reality I am operating from – even when I am convinced I have been misunderstood. (Selflessness)

Attending to the Injury as an ally
My way of saying to you that what you say or experience is the way it is. This is much harder, as the person who has made the microaggression may have moved to defensiveness, minimizing and even
gaslighting. However, even if you are convinced that the aggressor has been misunderstood it is important to affirm that lived experience of the person, again linking to their past experiences potentially. This may need to be done in private and in a safe space, or could be done with the microaggresor to act as a model for them to manage their discomfort.

PLEDGE OF DIRECT TARGETED ACTION

Attend to the Injury
I am pledging to you the ways I will do this next time. I will change my behavior.

Attending to the Injury as an ally
I am pledging to you the ways I will do this next time.

APOLOGY

Attend to the Injury 
An authentic apology can convey what I am apologizing for. We aim for the person to experience feeling seen and felt.

REQUEST FOR FORGIVENESS

Attend to the Injury
I understand that I may be undeserving of forgiveness, the person may need more time. My request doesn’t guarantee forgiveness. I want to convey that I value our relationship. I hope you can forgive me and I know there is no guarantee.

ENDING THE CONVERSATION

Attend to the Injury
Be clear that you are not now waiting for them to take care of you or to sooth you, or find something that they need to apologize for.

SELF CARE

Attend to the Injury
The experience of managing your own shame and dysregulation within your body may take a toll, and needs to be acknowledged by you and you need to take care of the feelings this will bring up. This is a relational risk and process.

Microaggressions often reveal an unconscious bias. If I am not clear what I did – this is where I might cross the line about making oppressed people educate me. The requirement isn’t for me to know exactly what I did – this point is to acknowledge that you experienced hurt and harm by what I did.

For example: if I have stepped on your toe, the right action will be for us to attend to the bruised and bloody toe. It will add insult to the injury if I advise you “don’t wear those thin shoes again” or “next time stand further away from my feet”. We need to attend to the toe that is throbbing.

Part of dealing with microaggressions is allyship, being able to stand for those who have been marginalized when microaggressions occur. This is important to distinguish from Saviourism: moving in to protect someone without regard to how they need to be cared for. Allyship may mean stepping up to undo their aloneness, validating their experience, especially when they are being gas lit, and joining with their voice to reinforce the fact that a microaggression has occurred.

Attending to the Injury as an ally
The experience of managing your own shame and dysregulation within your body will also take a toll, and needs to be acknowledged by you.


Microaggressions: Spotting them and repairing them
Based on Kenneth Hardy’s presentation at Marin CAMFT October 23, 2021 as summarized by Karen
Pando Mars and amended by Jacqueline Lynch and Kate Halliday, AEDP DBEI Committee Members.

A large part of these resources were shared with us by NESTTD, New England Society for the Treatment of Trauma and Dissociation. We owe a debt of gratitude for their permission to share.


Lifting Black Voices: Therapy, Trust, and Racial Trauma
An panel discussion about transgenerational racial trauma and its impact on therapeutic trust, featuring Dr. Tiffany Crayton, LPC-S, La Shanda Sugg, LPC, and L.J. Lumpkin, LMFT

A Free 1 CE Credit Hour Podcast Continuing Education Course… Donations Encouraged

https://courses.clearlyclinical.com/courses/free-ceu-racial-trauma-therapy

Providing Inclusive, Respectful Care to Your Gender Questioning, Transgender, & Nonbinary Clients

From pronouns to signage to handling mis-gendering, this course provides helpful guidance about supporting gender minorities in therapy, featuring Dara Hoffman-Fox, LPC
A Free 1 CE Credit Hour Podcast Continuing Education Course… Donations Encouraged

https://courses.clearlyclinical.com/courses/free-ceu-transgender-nonbinary-clients

Racism and Trauma

Books

  • The Inner Work of Racial Justice: Healing Ourselves and Transforming Our Communities Through Mindfulness by Rhonda V. Magee (Author), Jon Kabat-Zinn (Foreword)
  • Separate is Never Equal by Duncan Tonatsu
  • Seven years before Brown v. Board of Education, the Mendez family fought to end segregation in California schools. Discover their incredible story in this picture book from award-winning creator Duncan Tonatiuh.
  • She Persisted by Chelsea Clinton
  • Chelsea Clinton introduces tiny feminists, mini activists and little kids who are ready to take on the world to thirteen inspirational women who never took no for an answer, and who always, inevitably and without fail, persisted.
  • Resist: 35 People Who Rose against Tyranny and Injustice by Veronica Chambers
  • A perfect tool for young readers as they grow into the leaders of tomorrow, Veronica Chambers’s inspiring collection of profiles—along with Senator Cory Booker’s stirring foreword—will inspire readers of all ages to stand up for what’s right.
  • Little Legends and Little Leaders by Vashti Harrison
  • Author-illustrator Vashti Harrison shines a bold, joyous light on black men through history in this #1 New York Times bestseller.

Children’s Books on Racism

  • The Day You Begin By Jacqueline Woodson
  • National Book Award winner Jacqueline Woodson and two-time Pura Belpré Illustrator Award winner Rafael López have teamed up to create a poignant, yet heartening book about finding courage to connect, even when you feel scared and alone.
  • Brown Girl Dreaming By Jacqueline Woodson
  • Raised in South Carolina and New York, Woodson always felt halfway home in each place. In vivid poems, she shares what it was like to grow up as an African American in the 1960s and 1970s, living with the remnants of Jim Crow and her growing awareness of the Civil Rights movement. Touching and powerful, each poem is both accessible and emotionally charged, each line a glimpse into a child’s soul as she searches for her place in the world. Woodson’s eloquent poetry also reflects the joy of finding her voice through writing stories, despite the fact that she struggled with reading as a child. Her love of stories inspired her and stayed with her, creating the first sparks of the gifted writer she was to become.
  • Not My Idea by Anastasia Higginbotham
  • Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness is a picture book about racism and racial justice, inviting white children and parents to become curious about racism, accept that it’s real, and cultivate justice.
  • All the Colors We Are/Todos los colores de nuestra piel: The Story of How We Get Our Skin Color/La historia de por qué tenemos diferentes colores de piel by Katie Kissinger.
  • Celebrate the essence of one way we are all special and different from one another—our skin color! This bilingual (English/Spanish) book offers children a simple, scientifically accurate explanation about how our skin color is determined by our ancestors, the sun, and melanin. It’s also filled with colorful photographs that capture the beautiful variety of skin tones. Reading this book frees children from the myths and stereotypes associated with skin color and helps them build positive identities as they accept, understand, and value our rich and diverse world. Unique activity ideas are included to help you extend the conversation with children.

Children & Anti-Racist Parenting

  • Talking to Kids about Racism Part 1 https://www.facebook.com/watch/live/?v=3163881693633440&ref=watch_permalink
  • Talking to Kids about Racism Part 2 w Beverly Daniel Tatum https://www.facebook.com/560763030938742/videos/264032861323725
  • An Anti-Racism Conversation for All of Us with Dr. Jennifer Harvey https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0k2SQDc_d2M&t=10s
  • Racism and Violence: How to Help Kids Handle the News: A conversation between Kenya Hameed, PsyD and Jamie Howard, PhD of Child Mind Institute.
  • The Conscious Kid: An Instagram account and Patreon site with information on parenting and education through a critical race lens.
  • https://padlet.com/nicolethelibrarian/nbasekqoazt336co?fbclid=IwAR2DqDyShBtZ3E23DKOzcXSJGY9oXQnR47_SGvLeOpRJ4qSEbL1abehrWCg
  • Antiracist Baby by Ibram X Kendi

Articles & Publications 


Other Comprehensive Lists

Black Life Matters: Anti Racism Resources for Social Workers and Therapists

Sophia Aguirre PhD Anti Racism and Racial Justice Resources


Mental Health Focused BIPOC-led Organizations for Communities of Color


Microaggression



Native Land Map

Native Land Map https://native-land.ca/



Podcasts and Social Media


Recorded Training

Decolonizing Clinical Supervision
Presenters: Dana Stone, PhD, & Jessica ChenFeng, PhD

Fighting racism without shaming 

Multicultural Orientation (MCO) Deliberate Practice Webinar


Resources

There are many great books and articles that address oppression. This list is meant to only be a sampling of some of the many that are in print, as well as ones that appeared or were mentioned in the presentation. Articles and books about AEDP can be found on the AEDP website. Go here.


AEDP Website Quick Links  

In Solidarity. Black Lives Matter.

Reaching for Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at the AEDP Institute

To view the list of AEDP Certified Supervisors offering low cost and/or free individual or group supervision for Black members of the AEDP community please go here.


If you have resources to share, please email lynne.hartwell@aedpinstitute.org

Meet the DBE&I Committee Members

Joshua DeSilva, PsyD, CGP
Lynne Hartwell
Jacqueline Lynch, PhD 
Karen Pando-Mars, MFT
H. Jacquie Ye-Perman, PhD 
Connie Rhodes
James Santos