Essential Skills Agenda: Attachment and Relational Work: Undoing Aloneness in Clinical Action | 11:00 AM – 3:30 PM EST

Day 1

11:00 – 11:30 I: Module 2 Course Overview and Orientation

11:30 – 1:15 II: Attachment & Relational Work

  • How Attachment History Informs Emotional Experience and Sense of Self
  • Attachment Styles/States
  • Building Emotional Safety and Secure Attachment in Therapy
  • Co-Created Safety

1:15 – 1:30 III: Break

1:30 – 3:30 IV: Attachment & Relational Work (continued)

  • Using the Present Moment Experience of the Therapeutic Relationship as a Healing Tool
  • Authenticity, Self-Disclosure and Therapist True Self as Interventions
  • Learning to Recognize and Work With “Relational affects”
  • Self-Other-Emotion Triangle, as a Framework for Guiding Relational Interventions

Day 2

11:00 – 11:55 I: Review from Day 1 and Role-play

11:55 – 12:00 II: Directions for Experiential Exercises

12:00 – 1:00 III: Small Group (Quad) Experiential Exercises Therapist/Client Role Play to Practice the Following Skills:

  • Track Emergent Emotions, Sensations, Feelings, in Both Yourself and Your Patient
  • Making the Process Relational – Using the “We” Language

1:00 – 1:15 IV: Break

1:15 – 2:45 V: Small Group Experiential Exercises / Role-Plays Continued

2:45 – 3:30 VI: Large Group Processing of Role-play experience


Day 3

11:00 – 11:30 I: Review Day 2 and Overview of Day 3

11:30 – 1:15 II: Attachment & Relational Work Continued

  • Relational Strategies: Establishing Safety
  • Creation of a Safe Emotional Holding Environment and Secure Attachment
  • Active Emotional Engagement With Client

1:15 – 1:30 III: Break

1:30 – 3:30 IV: Attachment & Relational Work Continued

  • Provision of Corrective Emotional Experiences: Empathy, Validation, Affirmation, Rupture/Repair/Re-Coordination Sequences
  • Interventions Associated With Intense, Frightening, Aversive Life Events

Day 4

11:00 – 11:55 I: Review Prior Day Learning

11:55 – 12:00 II: Directions for Experiential Exercises

12:00 – 1:00 III: Small Group (Quad) Experiential Exercises

  • Self-Disclose Something About Your Experience of Your Patient in the Moment
  • The Patient’s Experience of Therapeutic Processes

1:00 – 1:15 IV: Break

1:15 – 2:45 V: Small Group Experiential Exercises / Role-Plays Continued

2:45 – 3:30 VI: Large Group Processing of Role-play experience