Shari Eliot, LCSW

Shari is a psychotherapist with over 30 years of experience, operating her private practice in New York City. Throughout her extensive career, Shari has specialized in providing individual, couples, and group psychotherapy, as well as clinical supervision offering a safe and nurturing environment for clients and supervisees. Dedicated to advancing her skills and knowledge in the field, Shari is a certified AEDP Therapist and Supervisor. Additionally, she holds certification as a psychoanalyst, enriching her therapeutic approach with a deep understanding of psychodynamic principles.

Shari’s journey with AEDP began in 2015, captivated by the transformative work presented by Diana Fosha at an AEDP Seminar. Instantly recognizing the profound impact of AEDP’s healing and non-pathologizing approach, Shari felt she had discovered her clinical home. Since then, she has been an active member of the AEDP community, assisting Immersion, Essential Skills and Advanced Skills courses. Additionally, In conjunction with AEDP Metro NYC, Shari formed an AEDP peer supervision group that has been meeting since 2018.

In addition to her expertise in AEDP, Shari has pursued advanced training in a diverse range of therapeutic modalities, including Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Imago Therapy. This rich tapestry of knowledge allows her to integrate various approaches seamlessly, tailoring her therapeutic and supervisory interventions to the unique needs of those she works with. As an AEDP Supervisor, Shari finds immense fulfillment in guiding others on their professional journeys, assisting them in discovering their unique AEDP “voice” while imparting essential skills and insights. She is dedicated to helping individuals recognize and appreciate their inner strengths. Shari has a profound passion for applying AEDP principles to facilitate healing and growth within group settings. She aspires to share these applications with the AEDP community.

Shari’s supervisory influences in AEDP include esteemed mentors such as Natasha Prenn, Jeanne Newhouse, Kate Halliday, and Ben Lipton, whose guidance has shaped her approach and deepened her understanding of the therapeutic process.